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Published: 2017-08-25
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e6cVpgP6Dmg
I want to ask all of you one what important question and that is how many of you like foods for example this this is a Muslim it's got us going to hope when I was working there for the children angel in college somebody as before I saw many students I want to turn them back in the county's leading subjects like that of merchants machine design and
I got pretty close to most of the students there would be kinder to me and they would like this fruit externally all look very happy but confident they positive but when I really people into the mind then I realized but we'll do something else they were like this if I'd but this proved most of the students were disturbed having no confidence dressed and some were even
close for depression press on Monday I decided I will not be so mechanical engineering but I meet each in the things needing the reason why I'm doing this because today technology has advanced unlocked but still we don't know about my Dick knowledge how many of you have this expediency in your life yes it got which is your dream got for example this is up for grabs
and you get infatuated by the Scott how many of you have this experience please raise your hands yes for this is part of infatuation this is infatuation due to a cot I most of the people who make good bye decisions based on infatuation this is a god it's okay but imagine if it's enough car that is a human what will happen again one more important question
is what is infatuation let me ask you this question on everyone I'm sure Miller is the hand I kissed once in life you have gone through this experience maybe our elders off if the twenty twenty five you see someone very interesting very interesting but impress you and this is what happens to you you save all my card what the blessed mother to diss right underwater most
of course you fourteen know so this is infatuation infatuation mints you Superfund instantly I do for you know instantly but infatuation somebody that's first crush from how many such questions in the lights some bond lord foresight so this is infatuation I would like to defend the story I know you are infatuated by someone I like it better this morning this sentence you keep thinking about that
person day in and day out before going to bed even to use when you get up on the bed in my body you can do you know why do you do while sleeping pretty for seven that was fun has dumped into your mind that done business with thinking about that person even building they just also bought a professor is pitching but that person is in front
of your eyes every that that person is that but what do you do of course the story continues and the next person thoughts you decide the proposed a person and then this is the next the dating stops you son didn't oppose them spending by but but from about Buffy looks really cute too now what I am saying like this because afterwards that cuteness changes after spending
sufficient by the White efficient here utilize but this is not the person which you talked this is not the person who you met first you understand that despite Sunday's what I'm gonna live with he has no bullets in his life sometimes he's lazy the way he parties is different even he has some addictions also his attitude towards the opposite sex it's not good he is more
attracted physically but emotionally small white socks small spot trouble some difference of opinions on that you don't talk for two days but it goes to four days then a big fight and the fight continues and then what's going to happen of course this is going to happen then you face the reality you come to know that you have made a mistake you have selected only put
some in your life and of course this is going to happen which is a pick up friends I did most of the students what between eighteen to thirty and it's really unfortunate to W. that at this age when they have to ship the credits just the boards most of the Bible's them back up I'm patch up again pick up on a good budget some other I
called feeding fatuous I mean that is always clean for a two week and to keep on this CD is people on impressing they have no effect on them I mean that we can call it that picks gained some I'm not like that someone not able to pick this let us move ahead the next step is they're going to the many of loneliness they become the only
that market wouldn't exist emotional blow they stay aloof what difference it's like standing in the sky but don't speak much them under the age of eighteen twenty the maturity emotional maturity is not better and of course that shows in other walks off the leg it affects their studies that has the performance number activities their relationships are putting up Bob and then this is going to happen
of course friends for you the feeling that exams but Hey you don't get them relationships if someone is working that they're not able to focus on work this boys don't what spider we just know more the fact and again this has a huge impact they are one step before depression let me ask you this question how many of you have gone for depression leverage your hands
and I'm the first one who is behind but I have gone through this and I know what it feels like from organising hands I don't know what is the reason maybe social stigma if you're not depressed that would be two reasons one you're Superman audio lighting there is nothing wrong in depression what physically you can fall into gold buff that's hardly but Mendelssohn a comforting thought
is a problem but mind my diva's office but once the hardwood so I decided twentieth before but I'm not going to pitch mechanical engineering I'm going to pitch in that means nothing by this court of mind the college because that's the most important part of human mind I bought my first as a software engineer of mind and this was the reason why feels lost twelve to
fourteen years I'm following my quest a focusing on it it would be five percent of our mind just ten to fifteen percent is Hoskins a sense of duty is that I made a mistake sometimes sometimes it happens you get physical loads of with that person and that bothers you you loser what should be and that is the biggest shame did you have in your mind some
unfortunate the good right medical treatment but but into supporting and they come out of this but some unlocked and the next trip is off course the last one sporty clothes this year the last episode site friends I am gonna put many students and that doesn't mean like many of their friends have gone towards just like few days before I was talking with one of my student
he met me after forty years and I asked him how life is going on he's a friend just accepts but I'll think about his friend who was also my student and he gave me a shocking news but his friend us committed suicide and the reason is make up what's happening to us friends young talent is been lost twenty twenty two we are self this study and
we are losing this talent Akon please rich not because of its natural resources but because of his young talent and you're losing that doesn't you do all those things my heart cries but I see but there's off what's happening in front of my eyes now the next question is what was wrong why did we are behaving like this what's the reason we are so intelligent where
did you get it and why you're making such mystics first as I told you there are two boxed in you I want to keep it simple first no hardwood so can we just offered and this is a soft it but I don't mind there is some problem with the mind action let me tell you one important thing mind is like a monkey mine is a great
someone but very bad monster and if your mind is mustering you then it's like gossiping going to fall over four horse but with no control imagine what would happen if you're sitting on a horse we don't control definitely the hottest going to pick you up was disgusted the most important quality of a mind what mine wants is this mine once temporary place of just for fun
just fun it's going to improve the gratification might go through that feet I want fun don't tell me what would be the consequences of this I'm not bothered about ten years fifteen years down the line but right now I want fun fun in the form of Buffy six I'm going entertainment being turned on my junk food but I think artists but I do throw is that
and this is what my once now what's happening this is in fact happening with this I don't mind is dominating out intelligence what is intelligence what is mine intelligent things you know that this is wrong and mind is making you do that though it is wrong and that's not even my friends that on many doctors you know all that on me physiology everything but that addicted
why this it's the mind is controlling the intelligence now the next important question is sort of what to do about this first woman is France you have to create fell for goodness it was fun for goodness is the first step towards change how could how to do that of course meditation mine is a problem so we have to be in the mind because the control of
the mind but we could come down to my now when I say meditation most often comes post maybe thinking that such should I go to my leg and grow the beard not required you if you let somebody listen this for sixty years old not required everyone can do meditation but my vision doesn't mean that you have posted like a yogi ultra quiet anything which comes to
mind is meditation it can be reading the book it can be going to your farm it can be something a mantra if fourteen minutes everyday we must do for for the parts but Smit addition second thing very important but if the thunder how good friends I don't you fund sangha would finance but if first decide what you would be in life you become that what is
a fine friends you have to be very careful about friends so what this meditation but this book friends you can control this horse on mine but the next question is reading Balkan why this infatuation happens to us the difference it's about two different how do you feel don't like movies don't watch movies but if you wanna bet even one or two of that right the body
would effect I would explain what happened somebody would order every day you can see the headline but things like what what is been deflected a final we have so much infatuated by body would but when you see him we've all been you see or hear or singing a song like this are the couple a Jonathan I'm battle but ID one us and them you start believing
in that but you don't know that he was paid for but also for a peaceful that I do think that this is exactly what would happen in real life in fact most of the students they decided for him though you're going to fight and forty low low happens to you it's about it would effect friends be careful have control Audioslave for good reason friends to avoid
all these problems are life freeze have communication with your parents do not hide anything from me about and these are the best people in your life they know what is good for you don't hide anything from them does everything about your friends would you go have open communication next point no the fact know the facts before making a decision remember French Lalo happens when you know
the bustling properly infatuation these without knowing the person you just feel good about that but from the dock knowing that person know that but from properly next important thing is focus one important thing that this page up all your life friends I want our country not to be gone but if they love the margin was company of optical I'm sort was born wants to make our
country proud yeah now is important in life but before that something else is also an important low just happens princess Beatrice as a teacher I know what's importance of teachers Taurus believe in them only meant to just believe in them he just should not be Phillips combating professors but they must meet certain patterns the first I think I would like to tell you that don't fourteen
