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Published: 2017-09-07
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tsneLPMfLdk
thank you so much I think is almost dead Essen ideas Steve thank you so much today I like him thank save the lives of money from the bottom of my heart and knowing them for fifty four years of my life I've trained them before you put your them to continue painting them right now whatever you hearted mean deposits was version one I know you have converted
to be standing right in front fuel my passion is to inspire people I was confident that he is today and asked what he would speak on and I said I don't know and it really didn't know what I was going to speak on because I know that I always Andreas speak from my heart this is a recap of bush in the bond of the us for
the last twenty six years of my carry around the twenty four of years of Mike India from humble beginnings I went right to the top of my peak of Mike India and everyone you meet as a holes where demand from exercising doings fighting them to fighting like that I was at the peak of life KBO when I had of me still means only German down twenty
fourteen in the process of opening somebody send does leave my husband and I had to get so many loans from the banks that we had no idea would be them we did not compromise have any old business so of entrepreneurs mine was the first generation is the first indication on you know but however we needed to exit out of those dogs so you know extremely dignified
manner we sort of one and only pro would be one of the house and he made with lots of love and affection the soul of that and I am from India and bagel everyone's loans and exited from buildings refund movie a water main that was the day in two thousand fourteen employment husband I work for the sickness industry but break the six twenty four year I
think I need to move on I have never taken a seventy I have worked for free for so many organizations what have I done for myself what have I done for my family cousins vice passion is on one end nevertheless you your passion without having a dream on doing something cleo says love you said love for yourself plus and then you would be able to give
back to society enough however I stayed back and had to buy the two thousand four deporting podia V. downsized completely had everyone love and affection we put the bins it was a bug in the ninth and tenth month regulation first down to break even and I told myself that he owes in years of hard work from my husband was faithful Mike India all his hard earned
money in all of the book that I have put Dave and we've got no hope harpoon which is also fine now what's next I was at a stage in an age of the mother in my life who have young boys and girls as old as you are Libby who is setting in college and adolescence if either by carrier all my children's education I took an overnight
decision on the sixteenth of October and adored my says that it's time to move on it's time to little rock a decision that is in your life when you want to do something for your family you have to do something for your family I give myself executive team days within fifteen days I shock shock in has a bug the most well known fitness center shut children
has a bug and I decided to move one I decided to move along with my husband who had then got a job invest in London the revelers I didn't even know when it was I had no idea where I was going or they knew that I was going for my family my fitness timely has always been and will always be my first family but this was
the time I needed to give them attention be stepped out be moved on went into a spin log and before I did that my family was extremely concerned citadel be that anyway the fitness profession is all for you guys time to move on do what I think it's time for you to start baking cakes what I never have a big kick in my life I don't
even know I don't know what good does indicate this is two years back so I was indoors part of baking programming daily lake that twenty one days the toughest days of my life because I was traumatized inorder do anything but well I posse exam because of the hard work and our bodies and they came back and I look pretty packed my bags and went up to
the voters do you know a sort of other than my husband does not in the public so there are let's have a practicing my lift up cakes and Mikey except below the don't knows what all based on that I didn't know what to do it because they do not want to send because I never saw anything in my life I don't you worked hard so I
made about ten boxes of cupcakes and went to all the neighbors and said hello I did not see I big kicks from hall I made this for you yeah my number said if you like it obviously we wanted to have a debate something for you nine out of ten homes everyone hung by letting about allies hinted to plain cupcakes and the ticket to home and the
eight and publicly the template the screen to shouted at me and we don't want sales women in our building acetylene okay medicines women that was extremely traumatized I do not want to do but I didn't give up I believe I said somebody really like one cupcake of mine and I started my journey as a homemaker dystonias back and I wasn't Morse Veneno home Baker did the
vocal from David to put her thoughts and global log because everywhere nine point good six months into that Joni invest the money my husband lost his job they didn't want him obviously being a homemaker does not favor with my friends but when he was struck with this even in the toilet and to come back to the headlines north placed over the double back to Louisville continue
under Indian going to Mumbai everyone says multi if you can make it happen by you can make it happen and you ended the one size adobe let's take give it a shot so we traveled all the way to move by backed up thanks we know dogs and children and everybody such a shift shooting completely in Mumbai one month went by very excited I was extremely excited
finished packing my bags I'm packing my bags and I said well if you know the party's over now what should I do back again it was a homemaker right she was a homemaker sheep once again big cakes this time I went to all the apartments in my building and a lot of famous clean back sales women I'm not Ennore city has to do I was broken
hearted broken hearted Tyson dress and maybe this is not my Cup of tea maybe I should go back to the fitness well and see you know what I said I don't like I had never heard of like put a dog in my life I started applying for a job online in Mumbai city but the movies was Jim is the top of the gyms and I finally
told my son entities that we go and work as a trainer on some money ten applications window one HR consultancy corn me up and said one to distribute to debut on Friday interview nine people into the no fly so finally awake for this interview and they were doing me carry your credentials and god knows what not and that's all I had so I took backed up
alone bags made put it into view region destiny dais fitness assessment as high percentage desk Neiman Autobot stolen so busy young Ono struggling little older than my son I'm from New York days he sits in front of me and see so what do you want to do so they'll do anything why are you and why are you here as a result getting into the details I
need to you know but even competition daughter said yes it doesn't matter I'm disconnected from editing Lincoln Avedis strikes doesn't voice beast strong also for your own questions with the neo says do not ever ever licked the wheels come in the wake and that's the only way you can take that next step forward so he said okay let me see what I can pick you in
and then finally I never heard from him that was extremely sad that drove me down tremendously but I said okay let me know what to do in mind of quality and accused loco within a few weeks of me going to the gym because the boys I was broken hearted I such a cry which had never ever done I don't look like a political crisis will much
but I started crying and opened a standing in my journeys in the last two years I also picked up tremendous amount of spirituality so I restarted my friends would switch with human beings and one new water heater and adventuresome heaving processes of breathing and acceptance insulin and so forth and a highly cunt came to the conclusion that I needed to move back to my hooves I
needs to pull back to the home that it belonged so with the loathsome lots and got some kinds I went up to my family and I said assistance for months in my city that I need to pull back there was silence in my house order fortune not accepted so I said we're not going back I am going back let me make it harder for the family
let me see if I can is the chemistry with the people behind the word that means the same let me see if I can earned eight three thousand companies as opposed to zero in Mumbai city let me see if in six months time I can make it happen the men like my family to join me on the sixteenth of July last year so I decided to
start all in good would be Monday it's on the sixth division of the nineteenth of July last year so on the sixteenth of July July ninth trip I packed my bags I told my husband I need to do things an airplane one way ticket and only five thousand copies good little boys at Duke tremendous amount of people cottage guts determination to put quite doesn't reason my
what it back my bags when he bit the basics that I needed and the little suitcase and I sat on the plane order lower fuel double headbutt exactly ideological I flew into I divide as if I had never ever known displays I felt so alien once again to go deep into yourself be disconnected from what you would think people are thinking of going to is actually
people are not thinking of going to but I started distancing all myself completely from the people who know me from my friends from everyone slept in the gym the plus nine was scared to death what part of small lizard demon bananas then I went and checked into a lot of so disappointment from the five thousand dead rednecks because of movies finish non gifted two thousand a
piece don't want is for me to start my classes put the word out out of the blue someone called me and said so and so's houses a movie could be part of biggest and you know what who don't know to be my Janus hosts who worked for me for fifteen years I don't want my said paid thousands who mac thought he doesn't mac bill what matters
is the requirement that I have to work and make it happen again subjected to home kept everything disconnected again just just kept the focus going cousins vice keep that focus schooling keep that thank goodness going in your system and that's how I started the first person that gave me the first three thousand rupees for months he's my hand was rambling receiving that I couldn't believe that
I got three thousand apiece from someone and this is just the you are back with a lot of good ten determination within myself I told him I said that I really bombs back I am bouncing back everyday deals going to my eyes but I kept the focus going cousin boys if it is your calling and your passion keep their focus going keep that determination going with
you and you would definitely make it happen and there can this be you don't want to put that on me in the last one month it was four in the second gratitude I'm pulling these practices the so beloved I always practiced gratitude within myself and you know what calamity struck of meat I hope or purpose had been this I forgot what I was going to do
it because I only only only focused on morning and the more I focused on it the more important and that is extremely important you need to start focusing on what you have as opposed to what you don't have and when I started doing this it's unbelievable how many things have happened in the last few months I used to start believing on how to become happy as
anyone I was leaving work probably become had been or do you need to do is shift your focus from being I'm happy about things that you don't have and stop being grateful for the things and we have and we're going to have a small procedure right now I want each and everyone of you to close your eyes and let me talk to me in your mind
I am extremely grateful for my body to wake up every morning with a slight and go to the entire day I'm extremely grateful to the circle I am extremely grateful to the floor that I stand alone I'm extremely grateful to the chair that I sit on I am extremely grateful to techniques and the organizers of today's I'm extremely grateful to the break I have an extremely
good for the I'm extremely grateful that the bacon several New York I'm extremely good foot the bill hooked approached me thinking I'm extremely grateful to my friends and my members with constantly supported me and I am extremely grateful behind the plot what have you thank you thank you thank you I cannot thank you all of you know I knew you had big bags as one misses
