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Published: 2017-09-12
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1rpjpsx19_E
hi good evening my name is Maggie me in the hall and the time this is my second name I have to tell you something my grandmother name is fine he me in English it means %HESITATION winds and when I was a young girl who won one day I overheard her sink to a neighbor that every pad and you do you still view for their chai used
to make that bred the rise and then the pressure by panicked because I know my bed and don't have them but they are just the good life that you just didn't give me so I I was wondering what kind of phone I think I would dare to place my use to make my bread the rise and then I was speaking again video on to a boarding
school in Lebanon such a beautiful place it's well organized and that's an amount that awfully about known then that through the beautiful underworld like few hundred girls there and you know when people are in groups they tend to pick different roles they went like that mean girls the smugglers to support the terrorists and then I knew I had to choose the group to belong to and
that time IE decided like a let let me make a good all by myself in your group and the iPhone bit and that was kind that's and the let me tell you what this kindness for me personally kindness is a choice you take and that's you put on nobody is born like dying on an asshole on order races gonna like you choose to be the thing
for it's a choice you make and I think that's a beautiful dress it's really lie and that somebody dreads and the IT IE really manage in the school I was that fourteen years I got along with everybody and the knowledge that I live in Finland and thanks to Facebook we're that like communicating with old friends everybody liked me I left the good that was seen you
know whom they asked that I would like to have memories for everybody because that was the kind everybody know Maggie is kind then I came to Ferdinand and I had nothing with me about this the rest of mind the summit address and they came to the school and country and they wanted this dress and the post needed to integrate and to find friends people want to
be a part of me part of my life because I had something as the to offer like the warmth and I'm I think I'm the biggest target in Finland I hope everybody and kiss everybody because I get something out of it though ash and then you know I have a teenage girl that he and the like I tried to teach her a lot and my way
of thinking it's not the school who will gonna bring up my daughter and give her like that I wish they'd like manners off life it's my work and there one time and we went to a shopping mall and I wanted to prove to them that that he that was cut kindness you could really manipulate people total become good themself to and dissecting that that each was
anything's person and I will show you how I could let her be the way I want to put certainly how I so if people at my work and she chose one they'd be issue was like didn't middle aged woman and she looked like she is up to here with customers having a bad day and I went to her and I said the my thumb could you
help me and I loved this when that you slept slap people face with kindness it's like you wake them up you know it's like a tightness is like the fat bonus boys like I give you this example it's like the famous board it's made out of a smile genitals the goodwill and the respect and the follow through on this board that you'll it's all of you
if you would throw it back to me it's like give and take and you really have to seem like how people would behave when I am like all of that kind because it shocks them they don't expect this and like when I go to let's say US market and and I'm like was the little city of I look like a depressed I grew as they all
like they know who I am like they know me I'm their customer and I see the ad like invite me to come so they would certainly because they they know I'm kind I make them laugh and you know and it's like I win them oil was winning from this and then I have to tell you that the I mean this is something really amazing like if
a pass served me on that on my life have lifted me up and that has brought me people who would really Love Me I would I would I would never like if I would ask for help people will help me because I will head back because I'm kind and I have just please send them dumping it in the middle of I think you you know that
might make them money making machine hectic as became possible point it then and then we have the small lease newstalk one caffeine was it's really I mean think that's different from other places because I'm not that chef Ramsay past now book make back had good me if what I'm just the mother who will good food you know I liked it known much short but people come
for this they California for the Dutch and because I defend I have them I teach them but they did also back from this and yes kindness can bring it back to the table and the you know you have to feed the magic at work I work very hard I work long days but I get a lot of energy from people because I seem to goodwill because
people on either Thursday four nine and the kindness and like and you know like if you know how things I've eaten hidden from them to go to lunch please that is no human patch they sort of your next you know what I mean you feel like a lot of I don't believe this and my place and I would really like to I want to be here
spontaneous I want to give love because we only need to be loved and to love it it's very venue toward being what I want to say for my grandmother the test my grandma I have followed my use and that this guy in this and you know it's not the blood but I have to softly and three Netherlands that and I want just to pay you genius
but does that stuff blindness and everything your door because it's very rewarding vest on kindness because the work viewed as to kind was everything so she is up close for me to fort ord the kindness you have in your heart because just what make us human we need to be kind to each other and he's was me that's left applause the kindness than us and celebrate
