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TEDx Talks
Published: 2017-09-08
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4KAKdGBTqZo
we may face terrible question I'm when I move it as impossible as questions through it's just being a person they go back to trying to figure out what creates an artist trying to figure out what they preach I didn't know until recently in residence told this talk is not a guideline bush because figure out who you are that's entirely your job this isn't about what society
Armitage humans by having creative sides with brains have helped so many problems and issues as social beings beside his beverage are integral to who we are but at the same time post famed societies have created new issues such as what happens to those people that don't quite fit and moving on to both sides their reasons for X. people can always find a reason why you don't
feel probably in my case fundamental national my mother is from Germany fathers Greek and German armor mother although some people committed during that time because one or the other once management becomes yes I can hear you and I swear so we'll no I mean just what you mean you don't know twenty counted which when you dream it maybe if I just three times and I come
to study backwards the language and we can I never quite understood my back at home this may be so different from theirs but apparently it's it's it was is and will be used to exclude me from station or listen to my opinion thanks very this is more of a slightly different form and yet it's amazing how some when I came to us and it was you
I was lost first round and they said the media because it was the most obvious on so warnings so you can imagine my surprise when people so where are you really from nnova national parents then they said okay so you German I have a theory about the same number you should I think that people want to make sure that the people they then spread with a
few in number because this makes us or special let's talk about boxes for minutes or sec very much so many things remittances out all those servers it's our race or gender we've chosen over we've been assigned to people we know trust me love just people order also metalanguage is easy and the case is remotely program all this ends up asking about timing belts that includes all
those circles and you're telling us that from like dogs you choose to Puerto Montt single strands that consists of in my example I found that there really wasn't upset about two German but eventually I came to the conclusion that really really doesn't because I object to violence culture hasn't left me entirely on top but now I'm German looking for it I say that I was in
when I do the job and so we have to see Dave and says about and when I say that I am German to a job I feel like a fool which brings me to the topic of societal expectations once people recognize me sporting the other person start the ones that make me feel as if the way I wasn't so why am I living in Germany why
were you chosen to represent the country kitchen read from expectations started and how to start more and more authenticity more books although I never even understood in the first place right after Hafsa moving and something well I just couldn't be part of the two holes is when it comes identity so you think the people we love those things people we had at yeah so this is
what her new friends Michael I had to say yes album surely Munich partially from Waterford then they bring him Ohio carried out here when people ask where are you from they don't actually expect in concert longer than four words they're not ready throughout history I discovered that means that I feel needs to I'm uncomfortable admitting pedal some because I'm afraid that badly even if it's going
to permission because I don't fit perfectly qualified and higher level everyone else I believe this is a general phenomenon if I usually is not guaranteed but we need to work twice as hard in earth in order to in order to ensure that one might even call this number to spin observers this simply means that we become aware of our society by not being fully part of
it whether that's our choice or not as a concept hypnosis to observe flag and you realize our culture and discipline of those cultures references if anything more than one call recognizing the main social constructs and terms possible everyone else because otherwise we conduct even hidden fabled to process in our culture that item because I I'm not even going people become aware that close to in the
sand is describing a situation is perfect as we stand at the end of the board eleven what culture you can observe full size not just one globalization has made her situation are events to go them threat come there are so many of us but I agree with the option of flying machines madly to fit into which password to hold and weapons so the global society but
to create a whole new box just because all of you the third culture kids Kate culture kids see Kevin I'm Eric hoelter individual I used to children raised in the culture parents well the culture country given with the need our significant parts early developmental years joining me see Kerrigan's ASCII both signed the communications virus that's spreading cheap globalization show them the number bilingual children has reached
the number of legal children first existing a more recent students because in order for the global society they beat data the cruise we insist the message supposing you coming from this box Wisconsin is that it's not only okay to be different but it's also okay to not know to what extent you are different that's how often do your math sats as those children can be cold
the citizens of everywhere own contradictory statements such as and those people can be broken global nnst conclusion the path people but how many people actually identify with that focus that and hosted Michigan is moving out of your so called can does it matter advice though considered and member of the sites you have lived in a long time doesn't matter if immigrants alone is a family or
is a whole as society is a circle Wisconsin can so once you step out of that circle you will probably have to stage when I'm also depending on society why you left us and having to step out of the circle it's almost impossible to integrate back into it again especially as an international security living abroad few weeks or months back in those countries tight what were
your results in you being a full this report I'm just trying to tear itself thank you very unhealthy amount of time in therapy buses from ships highest whether desperately trying to be a member of both to a beatbox positive because it gives me something to identify but the same time I don't really like that ha Chinese hawks American living in Denmark because we don't really have
any scene experiences I have my own books and maybe I'm the only person that it's it's I won't Simon whenever I see this to some decline see international as if I may have some spare parts during together to make it is a ridiculous way to do myself because all I agree is a mixture and we're really well because just one thing we have our own looks
and flipping Zaki into a box he made especially for us they need to exclude everybody else in a place where he promotes legacy and multiculturalism and every other great aspect UW's we need to consider not fixing that doesn't see implies being made talks but every pause every person receives treated as if they are one the person from that MC is from back country the present from
Uganda is she since two we've got if you speak French person from China about their opinions on abortion there's a sense of getting the Chinese perspective on the bush we will do this I do this person is an individual and thank you notes but we've still save that person from entering and maybe it's fight scenes in the system of classification even if people do need systems
of classification of water to process what but I also think that it needs no place for any of us if we don't recognize that all it is is pacification and not I represent and interesting aspect of this tool is that so many missing last night don't match but anyway the two because they shape us to make deals that action we lemon pulses and the effect was
life's the degrees which a matter is dependent on our own personalities but how did you would say that way for about as long slightest impact on who you are we certainly everything that influences are adults teens and who we are didn't that person's acceptance of the else thinks that something that struck me they are which means accepting tenth generation African American influenced by cents a pack
identity it means accepting by the first generation sizing is also improve I don't it's basically about the self and to keep self identification is something that characterizes the awareness of ourselves and the place that we find fossils you mean total continues that my identification was suppression of eight whites but on to the great identity I could no longer allow myself to express something been in what's
and and not expressing his identity I am no longer the million in my mind and I am also not German nor am I a vicious maybe this is not a terrible thing I believe that in time I would have lost the need to be anyway because I don't the point is that someone else made the choice for me and that's hot of one of you at
some point chosen one agency over another it could have been something very very small but the point is that you chose it so the question is we've forced to choose included just develop not and if you're forced to choose it do you ever wonder what your perception of yourself would be a gong on I think that the view that society has to you all we've had
the means we even need to change the face which present society we changed abuses sites that should be on the seat of the seas to Manami changing the Lhasa but it will close at the so governor situations where any of them and I fight all the problems but just ask yourself but inferences who you are because and I understand sure the question is have you noticed
