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Published: 2017-08-31
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vtb1QHtqj0M
that space and life is one of prunes sometimes many experts in nature we know it like the way you have to walk I do we give to talk like do we give to sitter but do we have to go out from this room most of these rules created by the society we live in but the society that does this all the time what to do and
what not to do when we when you're born you know the condition to it so many talks that Bella given to us all the time my teachers but the friends we make by though society we live in by the environment we create for ourselves and it becomes the norm absent as we grew up these all of these rules become the norm and VTech pot that wasn't
intended for us so today I'm going to talk about how the society you does this mixes somebody we're not how we can choose to know ourselves to big deep within us find some monsters and how we can do it today and not tomorrow I started up at a very young age %HESITATION meant that you know I always knew that I wanted to be a leader and
a feeling of understanding that the younger draws priceless I'm not you'd have the barber of being fearless but nothing did you do your life and impact you in the wrong way there's nothing that you would think now that does have a bad effect on your mind just condition to work all the time but not you don't do this not because of the Cup or toys you
know but not go there because it's hump for you so I was a rebel if you said why to me I would always ask why not and since I started questioning myself you know I since I started questioning everybody I bet I can the bad books off so many teachers that was %HESITATION you know helping me grow owe you know as as I grew up I
realize that questioning why not was one of the best thing that ever loaned so when I started up for me it was a hobby but aside buddy young at sixteen to tighten seven espy when by going to college owe you know for me my first job interview I'll never forget I went dead in shorts and though there in in person was entering me osmium %HESITATION are
you here for the interview and I absolutely boredom yes why not what's wrong with you know you have to see me here to see god when we do we I'm dressed how does it matter to you and for me I realize that time that being in charge you don't like playing football fifteen minutes before the interview was my pardon me bending to yourself I quit my
first job in four days owe them and that was purely because I couldn't see anybody realizing what my work because I'm still learning you know does do it did die as when you shut the door and you constantly look yourself in the mirror and Oscar so that is it the right thing to do doing is this the pasta do more taking your life in a lot
of us do it India maybe beyond thirty maybe at forty we all do when we all ask ourselves this question some point in our lives I'll do it we early so that that was the beginning called for me pull my entrepreneurial journey I love you know I so I've been for two more jobs up to bat and I realized I wasn't then I start looking at
people realize that the job wasn't the problem the problem was that done to me the problem was being the leader problem was not being able to create value for everybody else you know and that helped me understand that I need to you know step out of discomfort zone I remember I started up when I was still in my job and I was working from of fairly
%HESITATION if you could rule so which was about %HESITATION used to travel two to three hours of the day I love you know and didn't come back two to three hours and I used to come back at ten eleven in the up beat in the night and I was working from one PM to six AM %HESITATION hooking on poster girly that's the second company I founded
%HESITATION which went into a two by twelve million Jews in two thousand fifteen and about million dollar than top line and it is less than two and fifty thousand dollars in capital for it so %HESITATION so so Mike point two on a few is how many few pink and I'm asking this question to a few how many of you think that you control your destiny if
you have complete control over whatever action you take any reason Hans how many for believing that but and grandpa person %HESITATION others who for all a few it's called the trial ruler T. R. EE every problem in your life did you facing now maybe it got your decision you can ask yourself deep down who are you doesn't mean what degree you have doesn't mean what got
your toys are taking right now if you are a musician I talked this is the time to step back and take a leap of faith if you are not doing in your heart maybe it's just a passion maybe you never know if it's going to be a career out of view maybe you never be able to build a counterfeit but you need step back and take
it as being as fearful as you would be at thirty five maybe because now is the time when you old enough so you know when you have so many responsibilities you will never be able to take such decisions so DR EE Tinker realize realize this is the most important factor in your life when I was building the company I was not sleeping I've not slept in
the lost I think lost one week of sleep mode the Lisbon treaty almost every night I've been traveling and so much has been happening and I love it it inspires me it motivates me I'd never do anything as ever it makes me feel safe this is because I realize that but this is what I want to do with my life maybe somebody else wants to it
would differently but the realization that if it comes now when you're young you will be able to build a life who will be happy and you can make millions of dollars doesn't matter but does it inspire you despise me but to foster so does it inspire you because if it doesn't you always be unhappy trust me so realization of your goals and your leg vision of
who you are deep inside of the person and take you to places where you'd never you'd never think that you would go there then have to act once you realize this is the person you are this is quality of life you want but this is the part that you're choosing your life you have to act and you've to act now date is no tomorrow was CE
is that you know you can be somebody else but procrastinating your life walk out of this room and sit down in front of a mirror sit down with a pen and paper and talk yourself do you think you want to be a maybe a civil engineer do you think you want to be a program or do you think you want to be a musician do you
think you want to be you know it or do you think you want to be a cricketer this is still not too late it's a society the conditions of mind all the time to tell us this is what this is the right back up appearance you know a family of friends did always tell you what to do what not to do because they're scared the site
be shackled Joe my name it's like baggage you have a bag you keep pulling in people have seen the movie up in there George Clooney talks about this fact and this is the reality you like the bag the more and more negativity the more and more orthodox ideas keep pulling in that bag do have it grows and as you keep walking with that heavy bag go
back spanning and that's the time you realize still late you do realize that now and acting on it is the first but do it a lot of people when I was building the company so many of them I'm not talking about one or two maybe a hundred investors I met close to maybe hundred fifteen veces I met this wouldn't work you're too young I had to
grow bared his big to make sure that I look young I think I already people look at you and judge you people will look to inform I just don't problem with that this is like you you know if it it helps you all to know where it's going down to act on it then but when I was with the company Michael fondest trickle fungus quit in
six months we're not making money at that time he would do it was a difficult right you know it's always difficult when you start when you stop to young and you don't know the plot %HESITATION you know and then you also edited rebellious it's too close minded when you start out and so many people who didn't join me left me so many investors I met said
this is not a prison that you can build this one girl this isn't edisi commerce the suspect you're not upset you not a programmer so many people would all this push you down stipe dig all of them out of my life said I don't need you I started picking out all the negative influences in my life and told my family also it was important it's important
because these people we of pulling you down but you do realize are you strong minded enough you got back up to do a leader and take that you know bird because decisions are not because if you're not then there might be some problems but it would be about this so I was building the company many big investors left me many employees left me many people are
poor believed in me left me but there was a strong belief in what I was doing and that helped us and helped us to the ground we will constantly being able to grow and grow and grow so I've left you with the sewer DR EE always and always pink realize act and knocked again because the first time you act wouldn't be the body politic you try
