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Published: 2016-03-02
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7vZmOF11P9A
%HESITATION is really good to be here and I want to first acknowledge the students because this is not easy when your students not even easy when you're a professional so can we give these guys a hand thank you I'm here to talk to you about two things that you would think just do not know together those two things are emotional intelligence and the laws of attraction
now I was talking to doctor Thomas the other day when I came for the rehearsal ISU will dock emotional intelligence isn't that are being aware and having clarity about your feelings and the feelings of other people when you're in the midst of a set of circumstances or situation with the man I say yeah that is definitely a definition for that any very accurate definition for that
but the truth about emotional intelligence goes far beyond having just clarity about Pete clarity about Shueisha circumstances why are you there when you stop and think about I'm in this situation I'm in the midst of something now what is that something and more than likely that something is a set of circumstances or a a dilemma you maven and countered that you attracted into your life and
that's where the laws of attraction come to meet emotional intelligence like attracts like these things that you expect come to you what we believe is that if we say some affirmations if we take a moment and visualize something and do a vision board or something of that nature that's what's going to happen but not true as a matter of fact if I say right now do
not think of a chimpanzee wearing a red tie and a blue and white pinstripes and whatever you do do not picture this champions the wearing this red bow tie and is blue pinstripe suit what do you picking up the very thing that I told you don't think about because that is where you are putting your E. motion that energy plus motion and the more emotion you
pour into anything the more of that being you receive and all the words you can say one thing and do another and as we well know many of us typically say all the right things but do we do them if you don't believe me go to somebody's house and look at all the dusty workout equipment look at all the diets that they tried to go to
a GM and look at the people that signed up that are no longer coming because what we have done is we've taken the laws of attraction in miss applied them we don't take serious the things that we feel we deserve enough in order for them to manifest in trial lives and how do you stop that real simple monitor what you feel what you constantly pick about
that is exactly what you get if you keep thinking I'm I'm my luck is never at everybody gets it but me I'll never have that I'll never live in that house you know that's with him whoever the oma those people are when you constantly think about how much bills are what do you end up with more pink slips more bills when you constantly think about I
don't want to gain any more weight are I don't know I need to lose %HESITATION you know Lou some these bad habits that I have I want to stop smoking I'm not gonna smoke what do you do the minute pressure hits you go get a cigarette and you smoke again you get frustrated and you eat again and as you continue to do these things your thoughts
and your feelings equal the manifestations that you get in your life here's the million dollar solution to that first monitor what you think about your mind and you know there's a lot of %HESITATION theories around this concept but it on the tape is everything that is seen comes from that which was not seen that chair you're sitting in the clothes you have on right now with
somebody's I did one time somebody figured out on a long time ago guys should wear a tie you know we figured somehow that you know going on horses what enough maybe if I can build this contraption I could fly like a bird everything that we do started out in the on scene in someone called those things that are not as though they are and brought them
into manifestation but here's the catch for you and the solution you must understand that Koch's banking is not your solution conscious thinking is typically reacting some set of circumstances it's typically paying attention to that which is before you that's self conscious thinking you will associate that with stuff like have you ever driven home from work and you don't even remember driving home because something was just
on your mind or you automatically get in the car and you just check for something without even paying attention to what you do in your sub conscious mind is that part of you that drives the outcomes in your life as you learn to master being are sensitive to circumstances be paying particular attention to the new wants to cool things as we call it the little thing
if you stop worrying about what happened in the past and feeling guilty where have being anxious about what may or may not happen in the future and operate in right now you will train your sub conscious mind to begin manifesting the things that you truly desire and a short way of putting this is everything in your life happens for a reason your responsibility is to look
at these things in your life and I asked this question why now why is this person getting on my last nerve well they're probably getting on your nerves because there's some part of your character that is being reflected back to through them that you need to work on we get frustrated and angered and almost just discombobulated by that which we do not understand you have to
be willing take the time and every moment every situation in your life and examined it for its meaning you have to examine it for its purpose you have to examine it see what is this supposed to to me right now in my practice something that I constantly tell people that army this speaking to ruin lectures like this or even in my office is to stop being
so reactive and become proactive don't wait to talk truly listen don't just see things look at them you know when you hear something you're perceiving it at the expense of all the white noise of the debris that surrounds it when you look at something you are deliberately ignoring things that otherwise could distract you it takes effort to be successful but the greatest effort is master how
do you use your mind as we evolve and I'm not getting into some religious stuff so there will be no offering you don't have to panic but we came from somewhere we received I have a greater source in Kansi when our parents decided to confirm that but my belief is before we get here we made a decision while we were coming and we came to experience
the contrast and the challenge that everyday life presents to see your creator which you are a co participant in the creation is smarter than you as a matter of fact you can figure out exactly what everything means in your life by asking one question one word why it is okay you know even in dating ladies it's good to look at a gas aware are you here
what is it that you are supposed to and not thinking he will probably tell you the truth the same thing is true about the things that you're trying to court in your day to day life in your career ask yourself why what is motivating me to do this why do I feel the way that I feel about what I'm doing and you know you do not
have to wait finance you can get an answer if you shut everything down given a quiet space simply meditate and I don't mean lotus position going on what I do mean is taking the time to be quite to be still to allow your circumstances to speak to you in such a way that it resonates at the core your men must sit E. motion it's kinda like
that Geiger counter when you when you're looking around for a metal object and the farther away you get the farther away the troops get but the closer you get the close of those troops get and the way that you can parallel that to your spirit speaking is the better you feel about it the more you should do and if it doesn't make sense to anyone but
you all the better except the facts but never ever confuse the facts truth seek the greater truth you know anything that anyone has ever done that has required more because that individual to confront themselves they confronted their fears they confronted other people they can find it culture and had to make a decision that you know what you said I can't the system says I can't but
something inside me says what I came and when you seek the greater truth you get into direct alignment for that very moment that very reason that purpose that causes your emotional intelligence and the laws of attraction to become one as they become one you will find this sense of passion resonating housing in steering up something inside of you as that passion is Stuart up your purpose
then we got just comes forth you know there's this thing if you ever watch a football game you don't see the guy sit there wait on the ball to come and you don't see the quarterback throughly after the guys downfield right when he snaps the ball and that receiver takes off that ball is in there sometimes you have to run on faith you have to run
