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Published: 2017-09-07
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qjH-dGJPDjs
these are my morals and I promise to leave them at the office my husband John at that news to make me say that every morning before I left for work I always brought them home though look the woman's movement came in I grant for I was the head of my office even the head of my home because my husband joined a ten he was a fire
fight so we've been going for days at a time sometimes and I made a little bit more money than him so I was the boss I know where my stood in my relationship and everyone kept telling me but pulla it's a man's world it's a man's quarrel and I said well fine if it's a man's world then I'm a man in a woman's body went out
for anyway he was more of the feminine you know he was holding to the you know unknown virus and as for all logy I mean every other day something was in retrograde with this man but I love him you know we all want love but do you know where you stand in your relationship or the one you want a half well the one the two more
senior trying to get back yeah you well there are three points to a great relationship okay if you have chemistry and compatibility if the jackpot but if you don't have communication job lost it all and get well but it's not that complicated okay within every man and woman gay straight bi lesbian doesn't matter there is the feminine in the masculine we call this the UN and
the yeah but the key is that in your relationship you have to kill spores if not it's too much confusion and not enough communication so would allow you and we had to use the ending your relationship are you the masculine or you the feminine and I take let's find out I'm gonna need your participation in this part you felt the comment I know okay in in
love we all want to be cherished and respected but who who here wants to be cherished first and respected second okay you'll want called the feminine the co pilot the year now who he out wants to be respect that first and cherished second okay you think you start you'll called the Yang the masculine the pilot all but who he wants to be cherished and respected equally
wrong again you'll called not the things yeah it's great yes you need to go see my beverage tennis hi name is doctor Pat Caroline's well I went to go see her because I just couldn't see any value in my heart spent I mean I couldn't cherish him let alone respect him it was like win win the sign is going off and he's going to go put
out a fire yeah big deal this is by used to think I didn't respect him as much as I would say alloy ya or a doctor done or not world class you know somebody who made a little bit more money than me but my therapist told me total yanks don't make concrete toll masculinities could lead to a lot of arguments in a lot of battles of
the ego you know what I'm talking about right discarded P. a ballot to the masculine and the feminine so me and my husband we were we gonna make you now I know but easiest person to get along with if you haven't noticed by now but I didn't want to get the voice because I know that he's got me so I had to pull myself together and
one more thing before we believe in for work is real early in the morning I said to him join a thin I promise leave my boards at the office but I meant it this time I was going to go to work and I was going to come home from work without my bowls and finally we were going to be able to enjoy how a chemistry our
compatibility and now our communication balancing a masculine and feminine I would never forget that day and neither would too it was September eleventh he had was a tragedy but as it was all happening he was kind of like love was in the hot the lowest of fluff the yearning for la the understanding of love among all of this not send the shedding of the universal leak
out the yeah was love my husband why did not respect as much as I should have was quite old when this day to be a hero the man in the suit who I respected so much for how much money they made when now being saved by the man in your forms in their value Watson and how much money they made these men in uniforms became the
troll here most of love the path picked me and that had the perfect balance of the masculine and feminine feminine enough to have the compassion to Bristol lives to save another masculine enough strong enough to run into a burning pulling talented don't picked all for love and you were nice you find it difficult to communicate with the ones that we block one but you know what
it was like to own a thin trying to tell me all along but he had enough respect for my masculine side not to force it on me because you know you can't force the masculine to do when he but I got the message that day my Yang dissolved the little guy and among wallet that craziness I was to sit at home just waiting for my husband
to come home so I could love him but respect him first contraption but he never came home and so the world mourned and I want him but two one to him I was still gonna live up to the promise that I made to him the last time I saw my Jonathan that morning so I took all of the school off and there I was feminine as
they come so I beg of you if you want to find the love that is calling you know where you stand I want to be cherished and respected and I've learned to leave my balls at the office it's okay to understand the masculine and the feminine sides within us because in this life in this love we need both and yes it's a man's world but guess
