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Published: 2017-09-05
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nXwNNomxocw
welcome to the pain of society we're out west Willard values these five pays in the highest actually no let me rephrase that at west motives deeply obsessed base five pace performance productivity progression profit and pass performance have goody we need you to be the best productivity how much can you get done in the shortest amount of time progression we really want you to create something new
like something that's never been done before profit can you correct something that's never been done for make full of billion for us I'm pace could you do all that yesterday so what's wrong with this is there anything wrong with the answer is yes and not inherently valuing these things because there's nothing wrong with that these a pot of what's called the masculine the masculine sake the
masculine mentality masculine way of doing things and here in lies the problem we've disconnected from the feminine so before I go any further this is the most spiritually inclined toward I'm talking about masculine and feminine I'm not talking that man and woman I'm talking about it's like each of us is a cocktail and the two main ingredients and masculine and feminine they look differently that taste
differently they got a different texture with your man or woman Boyer child no matter what age I believe you have this masculine and feminine energy in essence to you slack union so let's explain this a little more the masculine is goal oriented task focused it wants to achieve it once at cons with the do things build things it's about structure rigidity it's not ticking off your
to do list action it it's it's stepping forward the masculine can be symbolized by the paintings it's a wrecked and it penetrates it really can yeah going out into the world with purpose and mission implicit precision for a course feminine the the feminine is that feeling feminine is about a young so that flow and radiance who did you fifty of its use of last that's what
the feminine needs the feminine is about just feeling what's hip or not doing anything about it it's why the stereotypical Jackie's men want a solution and women just want to be heard the masculine wants a solution feminine wants to be held nourished nurtured understood the feminine nature losses date connection that connection to our self other and the web of life and it's receiving the masculine is
going at making things happen the feminine is received and attracting and so if if the masculine can be symbolized by the penis a feminine to me symbolized by the John in history reiterate this has nothing to do with your biology she's an object's no John receives it's warm under some some of you would just go well he said that this juice like that's what it is
it's it's last in juice a feminine chips so the problem is the problem is that were connected to the masculine disconnected how does that show up individually and as a society individual we get burned tapped overworked we come over white the under nourished there's a lack of intimacy in our relationships lack of love lack of connection we disconnected from enjoyment all had doing %HESITATION action Condit
missed satisfaction it's like no matter how much you achieve it's empty and your creativity actually dries up on a societal level we have what I call mindless manufacture it's kinda like what are we doing that we just like Mitchell if we're in a penis face of erecting constant thinks that not all of them I serving us to the highest value systems are structures that life living
empty doing conflict in war power plays and money for only a small percentage of the world and not widespread lack of empathy lack of listening in caps creativity solutions so can we have the feminine without masculine the answer is yes of course but that's not where the majority of societies that right now however for relevance it would look like getting lost in an ocean of emotion
being scattered not being how to get out and do things and just being dictated by your feelings the fed is not as common to what what healthy balance look healthy balance is kind of like a healthy relationship between two people both parties are heard but also welcomed by everyone's wishes that honors how they feel what they wanted to do a one of a that's welcome here
that's accepted stead of like a healthy relationship is not one person has all the control this I know in my opinion you are you can make your see that's what slack but in you and I'm not look lack less push less struggle less grand hustle more more more and more ace more flow but better results put your hand up if you'd like better results with mores
if you didn't put your hand up could be crazy it looked like more fulfilled doing your action does get any satisfaction to me it's a fuller more sustainable way of living it's kind of like changing from current %HESITATION what because as they are to test extensive date connection and work that doesn't walk you out it replenishes you so imagine coming home from your nine to five
instead of just yeah off feeling great like how good was work today I was doing something that I loved and I was in flood the whole time work that Rick reinvigorate so this is the balance between being in doing feminine a mask so right now I'm hoping that most of you have gone all this is a pretty good option maybe I should try connecting to my
feminine so that's what we're gonna do and it's gonna be really scary this can be it's so simple but it's gonna scare all of you most of because it's not taught in high school it's not taught you must is is not taught in the boardroom a culture does not take stop and listen to yours some going to guide us through braving exercise to really learn to
connect to our bodies I'm gonna I'm gonna go idle if you were gonna brave together and then at some point I'm just gonna let you go and I'll keep guiding you by instead of it being forced yeah Balak okay now have raise now except you just gonna use gonna die we're gonna get a little bit we you paid some money you were invited to open your
mind at the start of this if you could change your life in five minutes or you could have a practice that you do daily it changes your life would you wanna do that yeah baby seo together braving in and that Ian and after I know this one take a longer exhale in and out now makes him sound out just a little bit of this and that's
just a sigh I'll let it go like this well a year nine and again some more world we we just pretend when not Praveen like let's really let it out %HESITATION %HESITATION eight yeah again again to get him well %HESITATION yeah it's bringing your attention back to me about studying your body style in your body there's nothing you have to learn here you're gonna have to
bring how do you feel right now just you can have a few is listening softening into your body as Naruto wrong it's maybe feel enormous stillness and granted ness keep your eyes closed if you want if you listen out right now maybe feel lack or what is this power that I've never connected to before maybe feel a little bit of time might feel none of that
made you so that's all OK there's no go here right that's the masculine gulls what am I getting from this feminine right here feels great where are you at right now just welcome that it's not wrong right is nothing to do and that's important has nothing to do so how comfortable I we without feminine each of you have comfortable are you with them how comfortable are
we as a society as individuals have come through here stopping right we think there's something wrong with us when we procrastinate welcome procrastinating I need to do more you know you saw months two realists a comfortable I we we feeling feeling antibody sexual shame bodies time abounds whole world right now where culture afraid to stop more more more we're trying to get ahead without using a
ha when I say that again trying to get a head we've got you I believe we can't give what we what we don't have the contacts what we don't know if we don't embodied ourselves if it's not within us we can't give it we can't transmit it we can't possible and if we saw been tapped so fatigued aspirate has gone out creativity and like that some
of you probably were Thomas spirits could Dan take connecting to the feminine this more is always more so whether you're fully burnt out chronic fatigue are you feeling great there's always more but if if you are disconnected as most people are from the feminine because the it's not taught it's not taught how to connect to it if you are disconnected from the feminine which is lost
itself right squad called mother breath proviso of how life everything comes from another how can we expect at dreams and visions our goals all the things that we have like the problems we oneself act we expect to put life into that to actually bring that to life if we don't have lost in us how can we expect that this is going to become a physical reality
if there's no life in us too channel impossible sporty I believe it can access to that which is greater than a script that which is great in the minds in the eye than the ECA we wanna collect god sourced universe divine intelligence whatever I believe that that is that's here lacking that lacked in the very yes esoterica sense and that's right here that is us and
the connecting to this body is a portal for that when we cut ourselves it heals we don't alright what Bledsoe's Danielle Spang we but let's get dhimmitude we don't chew food and well have pleaded she fit but we have like a sulfur gas scinet cement puppy down stomach pump up the city yes little more seven seven point one seven where do the ideas happens for us
what if there actually is a chance that no matter what you want to create first place was to go was listening to your body that's possible I know that's possible I will explain this in the metaphor of dance I dance salsa matata two forms of Latin dancing with a partner and when I'm like when I'm thinking about the move some thinking that always the Skrillex borders
and having a good time and when I'm in my mind they own dancing but there's like this very mechanical element doesn't like slow doesn't few as good couldn't I must look good to someone saying why but I'm not and that person knows yeah there's an element of Clinton's robotic next any music music doesn rhythms five pace I take us out of that rhythm and natural creativity
on natural flood and when I'm dancing all I have to do is stop and surrender and not when I let the music fill me up and move my body and then passed it on to someone else communicate that with the person I'm dancing with we do moves that neither of us know that's the wisdom that's the magic that's possible when we let life move through us
without the feminine we just masturbating it must feel good and just as a side note if anytime minutes insects you had left were this is Doug that's what I'm talkin that's why me eggs this culture disconnected from a body we have a feminine way just masturbating when the feminine is flowing through us when making sweet sweet love we're letting life make love through us into a
creative projects into our relationship into a life when I take my partner's hand I don't have the whole deck scripted I don't moment by moment by moment letting the leading music move me and say I believe that when we owe do this willow dance will %HESITATION create we will all live we will love will create more value you do mores we'll be more quality floral and
